When you are a housewife, you should able to do everything
Some people say aged 20’s is where we chase our ambition, dreams, and apply our abilities to make highest career achievement. But I never regret with my decision to married at aged 23, at the same age I graduated as a bachelor. I’m not saying that I don’t have ambition or life purpose, but one thing I was always sure that I will be happy together with my husband when we married with the aim of worship.
Big ego at that age doesn’t make me feel that my knowledge from my education is such a waste. For me, as a wife and a mother of a beautiful daughter, it’s always demanding me to be a woman who expert in everything. When my daughter is sick, suddenly I am a doctor. When my daughter grew up, suddenly I become a psychologist who observe her behavior. When there is home appliance broke down and my husband is not home, suddenly I become an engineer. I am a chef, like every single day. Oh, and I am an artist teacher when my daughter ask me to draw her favorite character. And don’t forget, I am a religion teacher. Because I believe faith in Allah is the foundation of a family.
Life is about choice. It’s not wrong at all when you are a married career woman. But I guess you will guilty when you missed the very first moment that your daughter or son did. There are a lot of wonderful moments you should witnessed about your kids, and it’s such so sad if you missed it.