Bullying in workplace is absolutely a not mature behavior
Bullying is not only occurs among children, but also adults life. There are various bullying around us, cyber bullying, college life, and even workplace. Bullying by adults is different from children or teenagers. Adults should have better emotional control than teenagers, so when adults do bullying, they do it intentionally and by design. Usually, the victim of bullying in workplace is a junior employee who should still needs guidance from their leader. I have experience and have witnessed a lot of bullying cases in workplace. It is often done by senior who wants to keep their ‘superior’ status.
In many cases, sometimes the victim doesn’t know what he/she has done and make others in office don’t like him/her. I found that sometimes someone hates others with just no reason. Sounds like not mature? Yes of course. I am not surprise anymore with that fact because bullying itself is a not mature behavior.
The best response when we get bullied in workplace is just give the best performance of your working so that they don’t get satisfied because you don’t get down. They don’t deserve your attention. Do not even think for revenge. If we do same things with them, it means we have same bad behavior quality with them who do bullying. Don’t forget to make introspection of yourself, are they right? Maybe they do have reason, or maybe you do something that hurts others without your intention in the first place. And the next thing to do is just move on and let it go. The most important is just stay to be a good and nice person. Because I believe, there is always a good place for a good person.
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